Bullying+Hurts

= Stop Bullying = = =

= Bullying has become a threat to some people. = = Bullies can say rude thing's to you, that may make you change the way you are in a bad way! They can say: I dont like your clothes, and you may go change them. They can say go away you dont belong here, and you might leave. All of that can turn into a life or death situation. = = People bully, because you may not be what they call "Normal." But normal is overrated, there is no person who is normal, or perfect. Everyone is different whether it is in a good or bad way! Someone can just look weird one day, and that's all it takes to be bullied. But if you can stand up for what is right, you can make a difference. = = If you tell a Parent, guardian, teacher, a friend or really anyone they can help you. Keeping it to yourself does nothing at all. That just makes the bullies life way easier. = = But you always have to remember the difference between, standing up and being the bully. when you stand up for what is right you can't turn into the bully, and start to bully them! They may be bullying you from a tough life experince. If you can get onto the bully's good side you can stand up for what is right, and make a new friend. = = Why do people bully? If you didn't do anything to them, why do they do it to you? = = Also if someone is bulling a friend dont be scared, get other people to help you and make an allience,a bully goes for a weak person. They do this because they don't want it to turn against them. If you get an allience you can stand up to all the bullies! =

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Bullying 8 things you can do if you’re getting bullied;


 * 1) If you look scared then you are more likely to get picked on. For example if you are walking down the hall with your head down, then someone could think you are an easy target. And move away from people who you know is trouble.
 * 2) Avoid the “bully areas” And instead of being a bully to the bully, just walk past them casually, say have nice day or anything. If you walk by the bully and they are calling you names ignore them and just walk by.
 * 3) But if the bully goes too far with what they are saying or doing, you have to set a boundary, you are allowed to just say stop. Don’t be mean, you may not try to be mean but your tone could be.
 * 4) Instead of fighting back you have to use your voice. If the bully kicks you, don’t kick them back, that could just turn into a fight and you would get hurt even more. So instead of just kicking them back say, stop or I don’t like that!
 * 5) Some areas make harassment free zones. There should be one at every school. “Tell your child that saying something mean back makes the problem bigger, not better.” If someone says something mean you should just through those words away, and think I like my self and I don’t care if you don’t like me.
 * 6) Exclusion is a big part of bullying. If you ask to play something and the bully says no, you can do 3 things. A) Say why can’t I play? B) Tell a teacher. Or C) ask someone else.
 * 7) One of the worst things to do if you are getting bullied is be scared, and not do anything. If the bully says dont tell anyone i'm doing this to you, ou should tell someone, that just shows that the bully is scared. If you telll someone it solves your problem and shows that you arent afraid. And even if you really are afraid, you can act as your not.
 * 8) Diffrent homes have diffrent rules. Someone may always punch people becasue they always do so why not do it at school? You shouldnt do it at school because that will just get you hurt and in trouble. Sometimes knowing you are powerful can give you confidence. But you just have to know when and when not to use it.